And to assume that because someone can't make themselves available for you when you deem it necessary, they are all of a sudden assholes. When someone works 18 hour days and has an army of government officials to answer to for every aspect of their lives, literally, I'm sorry but that is a bit more important than chatting on the internet. And when someone gets married, they tend to spend more time with their spouse. What in the hell is wrong with that?? Especially when their spouse didn't live with them before the marriage. Don't blame the spouse because the person doesn't think you are important enough to change around their scehdules for. Don't assume that you are more important than the spouse, or that you should be. Common sense people!!

I am so tired of being blamed for other people's dysfunctions just because they don't like that I am blunt. It isn't my fault that I noticed you have problems. It isn't my fault that anyone else noticed, too. If you don't want your real life to be the cause of anyones scorn, then don't live it in a way that people will scorn you. Don't put it out there for people to see and when you do something completely wrong, expect no one to say anything. That's the way life is. Get used to it. Own your problems and do something to fix them. Stop blaming everyone else for how horrible your life is, and start doing something to actually make it better. The magic happiness faerie isn't going to come in and grant all of your wishes because you are poor and pathetic and just want to be happy. Boo freakin hoo. *sob sob sniff sniff* You have to work for happiness. I do it, why shouldn't anyone else have to. MY GOD PEOPLE.