We got some bad news today though. Adam's Grandpa Alan is really sick. He has been in the hospital for a while, and today they took him off the life support so it's just a matter of time. I feel really bad for Adam because he has never had anyone this close to him die. I want to reassure him because I have been through it with my Gramps and Grams (who were more like my parents since they raised me) but nothing I say will make him feel better. I know that. Nothing anyone said to me made me feel better. I just want to make sure he knows that it does get better, he will be okay, and when his grandpa passes he will be in a better place where there is no pain.